Dating Tips For Men Who Want To Be Successful With Women
These dating tips for men can help you to succeed with women. Do you want to go out on dates with women and have women excited about seeing you again? Then come with me. This blog is about getting you more dates with women and a better relationship with them.
Getting her attention is the first thing. The eyes tell all. Look at her with a light smile, not a goofy smile. It should be a smile of confidence , something like a James Bond type of smile. If should looks down and away that’s okay. You are establishing your dominance. Do not stare. You don’t want to come across as a stalker or creep her out.
. You can just lightly look at her again with no frown but a light smile. Be confident ! If she keeps looking at you often even smiles you know she is interested. If however she looks away and has a frown she is not interested. Her body movement will give it away to. If she is facing you with her legs partially open, she is open to approach to you.
This is an easy way of finding out if she is interested or approachable to you or not. She could have a husband or boyfriend. She could be gay. Don’t worry There are thousands of women you can meet in you town or city. Unless you live in a small town of 300 your chances are greatly excellent of meeting women. You will have hundreds of girls and women to approach ever year Women love attention and women love it when a man shows attention to them.
Approach her and say hello. Tell her she has a beautiful smile. Or tell her you like her boots or anything she maybe wearing that you think is really nice on her. If her hair is well done up compliment her on it. Women spend hours doing things to look good and they hate it when no one notices. They love when someone notices and tells them that hair is beautiful. This will melt her heart to you and make her more open to you.
Joke with her. Tell her she has a Nigerian accent even if she looks nothing like a Nigerian. It is a ridiculous statement and is not harmful in any way. She will ask you ,think I am Nigerian? You respond I know you are I can hear it in your accent. You think I have an accent? You laugh Yea I can definitely hear it. This opens her up and she might even start laughing. When you get a woman laughing you are getting to drop her guard. The same guard she puts up to keep all of the creeps away. But suddenly she is open to you. You are already above all of the other men she get’s approached by every day.
Remember light humor is a secrete weapon for opening up women. You can even say she sounds like she an Asian accent. Remember light humor is the key to her heart. The dating tips for men I am giving will work over and over again.
Overcoming Approach Anxiety
These dating tips for men will improve your chances and give you an advantage over other guys. How to approach a girl should be taught in college.
Women want to have fun, want to connect with a guy and they want romance.
If you are too nervous to approach women you will have to learn to approach 10 women a day. Your goal is to approach a woman and say hello strangers preferably. You should look into her eyes and say hello as you smile to 10 women a day that’s all. This is just to develop some confidence and then you can add extra phrases to it such as you have a nice smile. you have beautiful hair. Nothing too strong at first and nothing too complicated for you to say while you are getting practice in approaching women.
For 2 weeks you should approach 10 women a day making a light comment and conversation. 3rd week you can approach the same women or total strangers and say you have beautiful eyes or you have beautiful lips. Tell her she has nice boot or shoes. Tell her love her boots or shoes. Compliment her on some one little thing that stands out about her.
Women spend a lot of time hours in fact just trying to look good. They hate when no one notices. Women love when they can get a compliment on something that they worked hard to look good at. But don’t over compliment her too much. Don’t go on telling her she is so beautiful or how gorgeous she is. This makes you out to be just another guy trying too hard to impress her. Besides that she hears it everyday.
Telling a woman how beautiful she is can come on too strong and gives them a signal that you are trying too hard to impress her. Instead pick 1 feature that you think is impressive or distinctive of her. If she has beautiful eyes tell her how beautiful her eyes are. (You have beautiful eyes) If she looks like she came from the hairdresser tell her how beautiful her how beautiful her hair is.
Always look at her from the neck up. Never look at her butt or boobs. If she see’s you looking at her butt or boobs you instantly become a creep. Always look at her eyes or hair. You can also make her angry looking at the wrong places.
You can compliment her on her dress or outfit. Tell her it is beautiful or very nice. Tell her how nice her brand new boots are. Women love that someone notices their hard work to look nice. But pick one thing that is real. Do not make it up if it is the same old thing she wears every week. Try to find a feature that looks like she tried to work on like her hair her nails.
These kinds of compliments are under the radar and will make you noticeable to her. She will more than likely put on extra lipstick or makeup just to impress you.
HOW TO SEDUCE WOMAN
Learning how to seduce a woman should be one of the things a young man should learn before he graduates from high school. The seeds of knowledge and experience begin as a young man.
Learning how to meet and seduce women at a party , or more likely at school and school functions. It has been a long time since I have been to high school so my knowledge is fuzzy on this. But if you come I contact with females daily you have an opportunity to make a friend or form a bond with her
Learning how to seduce a woman requires practice and patience. You will not seduce every woman. You will not become a master seducer overnight.` You will – a however become a better off meeting and developing a relationship with women.
Learning how to approach and seduce women is the difference between being in the friend zone or have a romantic or sexual relationship. It is the difference between being another friend or having friends with benefits. Getting that girl becomes easier and easier.
Your Seductive Voice Will Melt Her Heart`
Women are mesmerized by a man who acts,smells looks and sound like a man. When speaking to a woman you should speak in a normal deep voice. Women are hypnotized by the deep voice of a man. You should always speak slow and easy. Don’t speak fast or erratic. Take it slow and easy. Speaking fast and erratic makes it look like you are nervous. It makes you look like you have no self- confidence
If you are nervous about speaking to her before approaching her take deep breaths. Take 3 or 4 deep breaths. Tell yourself everything is alright and relax. She will love you for approaching her.
Maybe today you say hello how are you? Say it in your normal but deep voice. Practice in a mirror your deep voice every day maybe 5 to 10 minutes a day. You can speak to her 1 or 2 sentences a day. You don’t have to speak a whole paragraph. How are you? How is everything going for you today? Say it in your deep voice. Always smile and stand up straight.
Flirting is a skill that can easily be learned. When you see a woman you like you will need to establish your interest in her immediately. A man who looks away because he is shy is understandable. But at some point, you need to establish your interest in her or she will just look at you as a friend- acquaintance. Not as lover or boyfriend
So when you look at a woman you should look into her eyes and smile like you know something she doesn’t. A sort of a James Bond smile.
This gives a woman a sense you are confident. You should look into her eyes until she looks away. You are then establishing that you are an alpha male. You are a dominate man. Women are attracted to alpha men, not beta men.
This may be a little old fashioned but it has stood the test of time for thousands of years. Women are attracted to men who are confident and strong minded.
Look at her at times and then look away for a couple of minutes and then look back at her. Do not stare but look at her with just a hint of a smile.
Get Her Hooked On You
Be a fun person! Someone women can open up to. Whenever you approach a woman you should be thinking of making it a fun encounter. You need not be a comedian or standup comic for a woman. Besides that they may not get your brand of humor. What is funny to one person may not be funny to another.
Stay away from politics and religion. These can kill any encounter especially if you both disagree on the subject. These types of subjects do not draw yo to each other sexually or romantically. These subjects are mood killers. Stay away from them.
You can ask her what she thinks of Niki Minaj and Iggy Azalea’s feud with one another. Now if you have a good fun vibe with her she will let down her guard. If she is responding well enough she is slowly lowering her walls and guard to you.
Women put up walls to protect themselves from guys that maybe creepy or boring. Women test men all the time as a protective mechanism from getting involves with any man who might be undesirable in any way.
Women get approached all the time and they are afraid of getting a person who is needy creep or boring. Even all 3!
In order to date a woman, you must not come off needy creepy or boring. Your attitude should be confident fun and pleasant. A fun person in a woman’s mind is equal to confident strong and pleasant.
A strong man or alpha male is usually someone who is calm, steady even smiling in the face of pressure. These are the men women area attracted to. Strong willed calm even.
This is who they want to date. This goes back thousands of years of civilization. Women want to mate with the strongest males.
Better stronger males also equal better providers and protectors. Although we are more civilized and women are more self sufficient they are still looking for strong males and good providers.
Keep your encounters with women full of fun and playfulness. You will be one step closer to more pleasant dates and fun sex.
Benefits Of Being Fun
- She will let her guard down with you while keeping it up to other guys.
- She will see you as a fun confident aggressive male. Alpha male.
- She will be more open to more ideas and plans you may have. Including sexually.
- She will associate good feelings toward you. Even when you are not there. She will think about you and have good feelings for you
This is how to pull a girl. This is how to court a girl. This is how to get any girl to like you. This is also how to impress
Get Her Hot For You
Escalation often leads to sex. What does escalation mean you ask It means to move forward, to progress to a higher action or result in a relationship. Those are my words not the dictionary. But it is a result you would want such as hand holding, hugging or kissiTng which can lead to sex.
How do you escalate you ask? You have 2 weapons of seduction at your disposal. Your hands can open up a woman like a key to a vault.
Real seducers know this but don’t want you to know this. They sell their seduction products of approaching women with eye contact and confidence. Then you fizzle out because you don’t complete the formula or key ingredient. By touching her physically you are completing the connection between the 2 of you.
The next time you are talking to a woman, a friend or someone you have just met whom you are interested in romantically of sexually. If you are talking about a sports team of you town or city just say out team is going to win in the playoffs this year. Then you high 5 her and when your hands go up to smack try interlocking your fingers with hers for 4 seconds. If she does not pull away she is interested or slightly interested. If she does not hold your hand your fingers for the 4 seconds or longer and pulls away, she is not interested at all. You know not to waste your time with this person anymore.
Usually, 1 in 3 women is approachable to you. The number of approaches to women bears out that at least 1 in 3 women are approachable to you. So this is sort of a numbers game.
Women would love a man to approach them but they will immediately will put up their bitch shield because they don’t want to appear too easy or as a whore. Society dictates that they should act this way.
It is a no wonder men are so frustrated and confused when they don’t even know the rules. Women’s lib from the 70”s, women’s magazine and TV talk shows tells them how they don’t need a man. So they act like this so men can’t get close and then women wonder why they are frustrated and lonely. Society has messed up a lot of women with this and men are afraid to be men. Afraid to approach them and have become feminized .
Women are now more miserable than ever before. Many women now are regarding men as wimps or just friends. Men are afraid to act like a man and approach a woman. Instead men act like they should just be friends first and hope that she will see him as a great guy and suddenly fall in love with him. Never happens.
Women dream of men taking them aggressively. Of having the balls to approach them with a determination to seduce her like a man not as some neutral friend to talk to and complain to about their job or how bad their boyfriend treats her.
The Right Attitude To Seduce Her
Always have a positive attitude about yourself and women. See them as buses on a schedule. When you miss one bus another bus comes along- in 12 minutes. The same with women if you miss one or don’t connect with her another one is due in 12 minutes sometimes 5. It depends on the route.
Always see yourself as a great guy who has a lot to offer to a woman. You should try to stay in some kind of shape. You should bike ride maybe 3 times a week. Jog for 25 minutes a day and lift weights 3 times a week if you can. It depends on the kind of shape you are presently in. Go slow and build up to lifting weights or jogging 12 minutes a day until you can get to 25 minutes a day.
If you are overweight try to eat salads at least 3 times a week. Good healthy food in your body helps to change your life and attitude and leads to other good habits. Good habits lead to a more positive attitude.
Good eating habits and exercises lead to a positive attitude about yourself and your life. Women can sense your positive attitude and confidence.
Women love men of passion, self- confidence and determination. The positive attitude in a man is the basic makeup of an alpha male. Women are only attracted to strong positive men. .You need to be strong mentally physicaly and emotionaly.
Make Her Chase You
When you first meet and talk with a woman you immediately take control of the action. One of the ways to do this is to lead. Women are bothered with decisions and pressure all day. They love a man who can make decisions and take control. It takes the pressure off of them.
Always end the conversation first. Whenever first meeting with a woman or having a conversation with a woman, you should be the one to end the conversation first as if you have somewhere to go or something else to do. Just when the conversation is going good you end it on a high note and say you have to go. Make up an excuse, I have to go now to work or I have an appointment but you be the one to end it.
This can make her want you more from you. Also. it makes her wonder what it is you are doing when you are not with her. The thing to remember is that she is not your whole world. This comes across as neediness desperation. Women hate needy men. It is wimpy!
Women love men who have a life outside of her. A man always around her all day comes across as a man with no outside interest or hobbies. That is bad and sends a up red flags to a woman and a message to avoid you. This causes women to flake on you and become cold and distant.
The more of a mystery you are to her the more interested ‘ she becomes. Women do not like knowing everything about a man after first meeting him. This will kill her attraction for you immediately. Women love a mystery.
She should always learn little things about you a little at time. Your attitude should always be she only learns things about you a little at time if she deserves it. She should only learn things about you a little at a time if she is worth pursuing or and hanging out with.
Another thing I don’t care how much you like this woman she should not be the only woman you are talking to. Once again if you are talking to other women this builds confidence understanding skills in handling women. So not matter how good or bad the relationship goes you have alternatives in dating women
You don’t want to sit at home trying to figure out what she is doing or who she is with. Do not fixate on one woman unless the relationship has gone to her being your girlfriend. Even then she will test you to see if you are truly a strong man
Even when you are her boyfriend always stay in your own zone. If you play basketball on Thursdays continue to play basketball on Thursdays.
Don’t stop your normal routines and hobbies for her. She was attracted to who you are as the individual. If you stop everything for her you will come across as a weak man with no life of your own. She will loose respect for you and will grow tired of you quickly. She will become bored to death and soon start acting flaky and uninterested in anything you are saying to her.
Giving some not all of your hobbies and interest is reserved for you wife and children because your kids deserve most of your attention. Keep Her guessing what you are doing and keep her interested. Keep the mystery about you. Remember these dating tips for men I am giving you are easy and requires practice but they work.